Hi Loretta, we're sorry to hear that you had an issue with a missing gasket that caused you to not have a great experience with our Dayton D1125 3-1/2" Stainless Steel Drain with Removable Basket Strainer and Rubber Stopper. Thank you for letting us know about your experience. It is our priority to ensure customer satisfaction. Returns are typically handled through your place of purchase. However, if you are having further issues, please contact our Customer Care department by phone at 800-476-4106 or email at productsolutions@elkay.com to discuss the matter in more detail.